What Men Need to Attract Women

[AdviceQueen]

I got a comment from someone who wanted to attract women and have them approach him. There just so happens to be three things that attract women to a man: Education level, physical height and salary level. Using these three things, a woman can decide if a man is a suitable enough mate worth pursing. It’s easy enough to remember, if you’re smart, tall and have money, you can attract women better than those who don’t have those things.

Let’s start with education. Being smart is manifested intellectually as well as emotionally. Women want guys who can communicate, carry on a conversation and who show their feelings appropriately. This also helps women tell if they can trust you.

Money is an obvious one but not because we’re greedy. Studies have shown over the years that women are looking for a provider. Even very successful women, especially them, want someone who can take care of themselves and hopefully them as well if the need arose. This comes from centuries of providing men, it has been ingrained in our mind that men are suppose to be the strong protector who takes care of the woman.
 
By tall I don’t mean you have to be 6’10”. Women look for men that are taller then them. Period. How can you protect her when you have to stand on your tip toes to kiss her?

These three things are just the base. Women all individually want different things of course, if not we wouldn’t be the beautifully confusing creatures that we are. If a women likes a man who is adventurous, that usually means she wants the 3 basic things and then the fourth being adventurous.

The key to getting women to be attracted to you is the perception that you have these three things. So you’re not the tallest guy in the world? You better be pretty confident in yourself to show her that you are big in your own way. Confidence is a big attention getter because if you are confident, it shows us that you might just have these three things.

How many times have you seen an ugly, bald man with a beautiful woman?  You might wonder what’s going on there, but do a check on these three things. The attractiveness is not one of her three things. If he’s rich, tall or smart, that could have a big effect of her attraction for him.

Many women don’t have any idea what they want, but the three key attributes above is always a winner. This is big for the issue of sex as well. A man sees a pretty woman and he’s ready. That’s all he needs. However, a woman has to talk to you, get to know your lifestyle, before she can find these three things and determine is you’re suitable for her.

You don’t have to be a genius, Bill Gates or Kobe Bryant. There are degrees to which these attributes apply. Stay tunes to the next article to find out how to talk to a woman so she perceives you as having these three things, when you don’t.

[Jazmine]

All that stuff you say is true but for some reason I always end up with guys that are lacking at least two of those key traits, usually money and brains   maybe a short guy would be a welcome change lol

[shar]

Wow! loved this one

I find confidence in a man very attractive... for me particularly this trait is way up there right next to being intelligent and tall, lol! 

[Sylvie]

I can't wait for the second part of this article. I hope the men out there learn a lot from reading it. I understand not all guys are born with the three things, but it would be great if they could learn to at least look like they were. Too many women (I'm guilty myself) use these things as a way to find guys and then when they get to know them, they're not really all that important. So why not get to know the guys who don't have those traits, because when you get to know them you you won't care if they started off w/those things or not, I just has an epiphany! 

[Sunny2day]

So thats all it takes?  sounds like the masses of normal guys are still gonna have to do it the old fashioned way and put some work into it...

[Jenny]

Don't be so hard on yourself.  I don't know about other girls but I don't think there is anything wrong with "normal" guys.  actually I don't even think there is such thing as a normal guy.  you need to embrace the things that make you unique and use those traits to attract women that have similar intrests as you do.  Also, take that comment about confidence seriously.  if you portray confidence around women they will definitely not think you are just another normal guy, unless they're into that

[Reeever]

I can't wait for the second part of this article. I hope the men out there learn a lot from reading it. I understand not all guys are born with the three things, but it would be great if they could learn to at least look like they were. Too many women (I'm guilty myself) use these things as a way to find guys and then when they get to know them, they're not really all that important. So why not get to know the guys who don't have those traits, because when you get to know them you you won't care if they started off w/those things or not, I just has an epiphany! 

All I can say, Sylvie--and from the standpoint of having quite a few years behind me--is that you are very gracious, in the way you said what you said.  I do believe that the "epiphany" you describe probably occurred long before you ever posted it, here.  Thanks for the "heads up"  (i.e, making people aware) that, in the final analysis, all of that materialistic nonsense does not "make the man".  If it did, then all the gals, here, would be beating down Donald Trump's door, for a chance to get to know the man: and, that just isn't happening!