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nmvlisid
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« on: June 21, 2008, 12:07:21 AM »
ok im kind of in a bad spot im not a slut but i really am going crazy not having sex because it been months but im not the kind of girl to just jump into a relationship let alone the sack with any random guy so my question is it is ok to have sex because you need it or should i try and wait for a new relationship that could take more months to find? Huh Undecided
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Julia98
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« Reply #1 on: June 22, 2008, 02:23:10 PM »
I think that while some people may see it as sleezy, the world has come a long way and people have different needs than they used to. Sex is no long just for reproduction but actually is more so not for that reason. Yes, a long term relationship would be great. Yet, how can you go into that long term relationship with this huge need, it might disrupt the relationship or inhibit the relationship from being anything long term if it seems to be a one night stand. Perhaps you should fill your more urgent need of sex first and then you'll be in a better mindset for finding a relationship rather just a finding a relationship for sex. Hope it all works out for you!
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shar
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« Reply #2 on: June 23, 2008, 03:36:53 PM »
wow! interesting take Julia... however I have a completely different take - my suggestion is to NOT start anything just for sex. pls don't jump into sack with some random guy... not safe!

My recommendation is to hook up with a guy that you would be interested in for a ltr and take things a little faster... if it works out in the long run, great! if not at least you were trying for a ltr... you personally would come out feeling better no matter which way the relationship goes... no leftover feelings of sleeziness...

this is what i would do Smiley g'luck my friend!
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Ash101
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« Reply #3 on: June 23, 2008, 06:53:44 PM »
I agree, don't just go for some random guy, but like you said, if finding a guy you could be interested in could take awhile, you're not going to be very happy. It'll be hard to connect with a guy and start a long term thing if all you have is sex on the mind.
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Tony
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« Reply #4 on: June 23, 2008, 10:43:48 PM »
If you're worried about what others will think, then don't. You have to do what's best for you and your best interest. By all means you should be safe, also not all intimate relationships lead to a relationship. Perhaps you should just get out there, not necessarily looking for a one night stand, but not being against it either. You might meet a great guy like me that doesn't have sex on the first date, and a relationship could happen as well as the sex sooner than you think.
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Brad
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« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2008, 03:12:53 PM »
It used to be that relationships started off with a date, then more dates, and if they went well the sex would follow.  From what I've seen lately the trend is reversing.  It seems that people meet, hook up, and if the sex was good or there was a connection then dating would follow.  I'm saying that I agree this is the right way to approach a relationship, but I don't think there would be a lot of people judging you if you did.  Never know, you might meet someone great.
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kclax39
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« Reply #6 on: September 11, 2008, 10:54:22 AM »
u know what i am just as happy with a great kiss on the first date. if u sleep with someone u may be thinking will he ever call me ir what the hell was i thinking or omg what if he has something. but do what u gotta do girl and yes we all need sex and lots of it
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roninss
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« Reply #7 on: July 28, 2009, 03:21:37 AM »
hit me up would like to chat
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JBNB06
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« Reply #8 on: December 25, 2009, 10:43:13 AM »
Quote from: nmvlisid on June 21, 2008, 12:07:21 AM
ok im kind of in a bad spot im not a slut but i really am going crazy not having sex because it been months but im not the kind of girl to just jump into a relationship let alone the sack with any random guy so my question is it is ok to have sex because you need it or should i try and wait for a new relationship that could take more months to find? Huh Undecided
find a fuck buddy make the rules up first that both agree things work out great, but don't get romanticly involved just keep it simple,  Wink
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notosupersex
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« Reply #9 on: February 13, 2010, 05:39:18 AM »
Quote from: nmvlisid on June 21, 2008, 12:07:21 AM
ok im kind of in a bad spot im not a slut but i really am going crazy not having sex because it been months but im not the kind of girl to just jump into a relationship let alone the sack with any random guy so my question is it is ok to have sex because you need it or should i try and wait for a new relationship that could take more months to find? Huh Undecided
Don't be so depressed. You will find soon and enjoy sex fully.
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notosupersex
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« Reply #10 on: February 13, 2010, 05:41:32 AM »
Quote from: nmvlisid on June 21, 2008, 12:07:21 AM
ok im kind of in a bad spot im not a slut but i really am going crazy not having sex because it been months but im not the kind of girl to just jump into a relationship let alone the sack with any random guy so my question is it is ok to have sex because you need it or should i try and wait for a new relationship that could take more months to find? Huh Undecided
because of our distance i would give a company by having a sex chat.
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« Reply #11 on: February 27, 2010, 11:12:31 PM »
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